Since then, I have had this background thread spinning in my phantom mind – contemplating the role destiny plays in our lives. Does destiny really shape our lives, or do we shape our own destiny [as the principal character from Luck by Chance believes]?
And then this morning I came across a news item that announced that Scientists have confirmed the existance of a ‘Happiness Gene‘.
Positive people may owe their optimism to a gene variant that helps them dwell on the good and ignore the bad.
When I read the news item, I found my answer – destiny does play a role indeed. However not in the way it is portrayed in cinema or how we generally think it does – but in an entirely different way.
Our destiny is not whether or not we win a million dollars on a game show, or whether or not we ‘make it’ as a film star. Our destiny is how we are equipped to deal with the events we face in our lives. It is our destiny whether or not we inherit the ‘Happiness Gene’. [atleast till the time scientists find a way to ‘inject’ the happiness gene into people born without it.]
What shapes our lives is not what happens to us, but how we deal with what has happened.
We have examples of successful people like Owen Wilson, who as it appears have the best of everything that life has to offer, and yet try to kill themselves.That is their destiny.
On the other hand, we also have examples of people like Lance Armstrong or Christopher Reeve, who on the face of it have nothing to be cheerful about, and yet they are ever hopeful, never giving up. That is their destiny.